Stress of illness and hospitalization
Separation anxiety
Between the ages of 6 and 30 months, separation anxiety is a significant stressor. The following are signs of separation anxiety:
- Phase of protest:
- When a parent leaves them, kids act out violently. Cries, screams, looking for a parent's eyes, clinging to a parent, avoiding and rejecting interaction with strangers are all manifestations. Toddlers may also verbally and physically attack strangers, their parents, people in the neighborhood, etc.
- Phase of despair:
- Inactivity, withdrawal from others, sadness, depression, lack of interest in one's surroundings, a lack of communication, and a return to previous behaviors such thumb sucking, bedwetting, and requests for food and drink are examples of manifestations.
- Phase of detachment:
- The separation is in its most serious level at this point. Increased manifestations include interacting with strangers, forming brief new relationships, appearing content, and acting in ways that only partially address loss.
- During early childhood
- At this age, a kid is able to handle a brief time of separation and is more likely to build substitute adult trust. Constantly inquiring when their parents would visit, sobbing, refusing to eat, or withdrawing from others are some manifestations. Anger can cause someone to break their will, stop visiting others, stop playing with toys, hit other kids, or stop cooperating with helpful self-care activities. In order to respond appropriately, nurses must be aware of these less evident symptoms of separation anxiety.
- Middle childhood and adolescents
- They prioritize parental security and guidance as a "be aware from my family" necessity. They admit to missing the routine and work they won't be able to do, as well as feeling lonely, bored, alone, and depressed. They even detest going to school.
- Children of school age may need parental guidance or other adult support, but they may be unable or unwilling to ask for it due to cultural expectations that they should behave like men or be brave and strong.
- Adolescents
- These occurrences of separation from one's home and parents may be valued and embraced. However, a serious emotional danger can arise when peer group contacts are lost as a result of losing acceptance and group standing.
- Loss of control:
- Another stressor that heightens the sense of threat and might have an impact on kids' coping mechanisms is loss of control.
- Loss of control during infancy:
- When a caregiver provides tender care, trust is developed. They exert emotional control over their surroundings by grinning or sobbing. Mistrust might develop as a result of inconsistent care and alterations to an infant's daily routine.
- During toddler
- Temper tantrums are manifestations. Their limitations and movement restrictions will result in loss of control. When daily rituals like eating, sleeping, bathing, using the restroom, and playing are disturbed, repressive behaviors develop.
- During pre-school period
- Physical confinement, changing routines, and forced dependency cause them to lose control.
- During school-age children
- Altered in,
- Physical impairment.
- A fear of dying.
- Persistent harm.
- Loss of approval from peers.
- Any of these could lead to a loss of control.
- During adolescence
- They will have fewer activities due to illness. They attempt to respond to dependency by being disagreeable, rejecting, or withdrawing.
Bodily injury and pain:
A third source of stress for children is their fear of suffering physical harm and pain.
- Young infant
- Generalized stiffness or thrashing of the body (violent). Open mouth and tightly closed eyes.
- Older infant
- Eyes are open and the body reacts locally, pushing the stimulus away after it has been applied, as in the case of an IV cannula.
- Young child
- Loud crying, screaming, OW and OUCH verbalizations, attempts to push away the applied stimulus, and clinging to parents, nurses, or other important people.
- School age child
- Children of school age may lose control due to altered family roles, physical disabilities, fears of death and permanent injury, lack of peer acceptance, a lack of productivity, and an inability to handle stress in accordance with perceived cultural expectations.
- Adolescent
- Less vocal protest, less movement, more verbal expressiveness, more body control, and more muscle tension.
Effect of hospitalization on the children
- Young children
- The first sign of parental aloneness (detachment) is frequently followed by dependency behaviors, nightmares, hyperactivity, temper tantrums, picky eating, attachment to a blanket or toy, and resistance to bedtime.
- Older children
- Anger toward one's parents and envy of one's siblings.
Parents reaction towards hospitalization
- Disbelief
- Methods of disbelief or hesitation. It is quite difficult to believe when a disease strikes suddenly and severely.
- Anger or guilt
- Parents react out of anger, guilt, or both after realizing the circumstances.
- Fears, anxiety and frustration are expresses by parents
- Fear and anxiety are thus related to the severity of the sickness and the course of treatment. A common source of frustration is ignorance of the disease process and recommended course of treatment.
- Depression
- Parents may worry and miss their other children who may be placed in the care of friends or neighbors after the intense crying has subsided.
Siblings reaction
Loneliness, dread, and worries are the siblings' responses to a sibling's illness and hospitalization. Their primary responses are rage, envy, and guilt.
Effects on the siblings:
- Youth are going through a lot of changes.
- Cared after by a caregiver who is not a family member outside the home.
- Had little knowledge of their sick brothers or sisters.
- Believed that their parents were treating them differently than they had before their sibling was admitted to the hospital.